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First experience can never be repeated. Not like before; it means it's good sign. It's sign that one is not robot (plastic). We are sticking, beholding and habitual of relating past experiences. In this way actually we are stuck with the memories of past experiences. We cannot hold any experience; you can only hold the memory of experience and we become stuck with it. It is a proof that we are not 100% in the present moment; that's why we are remembering past experiences. Not 100% in the past, not 100% now, not 100% in future. If we are living wonderful life at present then no need to remember past life. We were very impressed from one personality at some point of time. By the time we came to know some imperfection / weakness. Now we don't like that being. Nothing changed except our thinking. After changing perception, the whole idea of looking that being changed.
We have to understand the mechanism of thought process. My talk is fresh right now but you as a listener are connecting it with past experiences. You are trying to make it old. Newly married couples become weird (boring) very rapidly for each other (same issues, same discussion, same question, same answer, same routine); nothing new, no freshness. Past experiences means that personality died (gone). Come to present moment with fascination. Enjoy the new experiences. Sticking with past experiences is sign of death. You will not be able to enjoy the life. We make the things (life) old by sticking with past experiences. If we follow any old practice, we become same. It means going to no life. We have to accept change. Game (play) means new; for example, badminton; same racket, same court, same shuttle, same other player; no second moment is same; no second strike is same. It's impossible. Every moment is new, different and amazing. Life is fresh like this; actual for everyone with new ambitions. Look at parents when they are angry on very small petty stuff and enjoy the situation how they are thinking. They are using their democratic right to be angry and sad; let them. Be open to accept everyone with every experience.
We need to Overcome the FEAR of painful experiences; and Desire for Pleasurable Experiences. Pleasurable experiences don't come due to desire; it looks but it doesn't; they just come. Same is for bad experiences. Every being has some good and bad characteristics; so you can have good and bad experiences accordingly from one and same person. It's natural / automatic. Nice word has nice impact, mango will give you it's taste; even you don't become crazy for mango. Eat and enjoy mango as you are eating for first and last time. This will be an unimaginable and intense pleasureful experience.
People are busy everywhere in text messaging; in spite of enjoying food, scenery; they are photoing and texting; this is not full enjoyment of that event; this is gaining weight but no enjoyment and taste. I am talking about full enjoyment of life (100%) because there is no replacement, no regret, no craziness. If you see the same person again; even then it is a new experience; the condition is if you are new and fresh from inside. If your spouse is thorough gentle, even then you will feel it boring. All good and bad experiences are part of life. Actual life to live is different than how we are living. Eagles fighting with each other and then mixed with love. Dogs doing the same. There is something to learn everywhere.
What if someone says; I'm not interested in anything; I just need promotion; good deals in business. In this case; he thinks that he will never die. He is planning forever. Observe life with new perspective every moment. Same park has a lot new. Feel the freshness of leaves; they are waiting for you and welcoming you with their fresh oxygen for you. Walking on the way it's a lot new to be noticed. Huge traffic with full impatience; now you have two options; 1) Irritate; then you are stupid. Stupid people are unhappy. 2) There is no need to be worried due to stupidity of others. I don't want to give my control of emotions to others. You can watch a lot of live actions in this irregular traffic; more amusing than screen movies. Real life action; five people riding a motorcycle including an infant baby; no helmet; crossing a huge truck with very narrow escape. No accidents are occurring; even though full possibility of accident but still life is moving well. Observe the grave failures with full attention with learning and positive attitude at present moment and you will enjoy a lot.
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