Can I Be At Peace
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If we need peace and happiness; it doesn't matter, how others behave, how others talk. It's same as our career; imagine start of your job. How polite and courteous we are; to everyone. We cannot react with employer or boss or simple office secretary, even though we feel sour from inside. We have power to react but we choose not to react. The whole career, we seldom react to our seniors (upline). This is like smoking and no smoking zone. We don't want to pay the fine; so we can control. Same way; we make anger zone, no anger zone. We can increase no anger zone with will power and practice. This is a continuous and regular awareness and shifting. Now I'm so skilled that I can refrain myself from smoking even I'm in smoking area. But, now, I know that smoking is injurious to my health. Same skill is needed to control anger. Now I'm granting liberty to myself. Today, I'm trying on irritation.
Don't keep trying to change people, it's better to wear slippers, rather than carpet the whole earth. How much energy, we can save, by this small action.
We cannot change people. We were on the way to find joy and controlling the people. In this way, we got irritation, anger, taunt. We opted wrong direction, wrong way.
Work was completed but we got deprived of joy. Our perception was, completion of work will bring joy. Ingredients used were anger, stress, irritation.
We have two gardens; work and joy.
Garden of work completion is fine; do, teach, discipline, instruct, target, exam; all is perfect.
We have to focus on energy used and energy created. Do everything but with right attitude.
There are two extremes; and both have their pros and cons (advantages and disadvantages); irritation, anger and no interference. Third option is stable and calm instructions.
Study of kids; instruction full of anger; they will study but turbulent energy is there mixed. No discipline; there is good energy but loss of study.
We need to check the negatives out. They study but with no turbulent energy. We have to take care of both materialistic and spiritual gardens.
We have to work, we have to help others to do the job; only we have to control negative energy. Wear slippers; self protection. How can we cover the earth; we come across different nature people. Dealing with electricity; we use insulated materials. Doctors use gloves for their protection. Instead of using protections; we immune ourselves with misconception norms. Anger is normal, heart is like horse. These 'natural' things are taking away our joy. Earning person has right to bully. Who is more victim; who is losing more; who is bearing more pain; the aggressor. The victim protect themselves. I'm working fine; this taunt is due to nature of others. Now slowly I'm fine with this taunt. Now this worker is good with slippers. Staff enjoys tea and talks in funny way about bullying boss. They prepared themselves for this situation. People around us get protected. But the taunter is losing energy in many ways; and is in more pain by the time.
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