Communication Skills GOLDEN TIPS by Qasim Ali Shah Become an EFFECTIVE Speaker
When you do what you love, you reap so many more benefits than your friends who are holding down just another job to pay the bills.
It takes time to get there where your passion is but once you’re there then you enjoy the rest of your life. You don’t feel tire or bored with your passion work.
18-20 years of education, we come across 100-125 teachers but we can hardly remember 5-6 names. Respect is for all, but there was only one or two; who were able to communicate in full.
Some teachers we find out of school, they are freelance.
Truth teller and communication skills; are two important traits.
Communication is a skill – can be learned.
There are 11 skills to make life successful even with nominal education. Some earned honorary PhDs. Communication skill is king of all skills.
Verbal and non-verbal communication.
Verbal communication is used on radio.
7% is content and verbal communication.
12:00 – 17:00 Paper exercise; 3 pages, 3 persons, do some activities with closed eyes.
Mostly we depend on verbal communication and we feel it sufficient and we leave the rest 93% untapped.
57% body language plays the role.
33% vocals, facial expression, low and high voice.
Holy Prophet PBUH, the best communicator, sometimes he just smiled on some action or disliked; and the whole message was delivered.
Connection plays the main role.
There are 43 muscles in the face, most of which are controlled by the facial nerves. All become active when we smile.
These muscles get dead for serious face people.
Pauses, body language, facial expression, low and high voice are parts of speech.
If you pay attention to speechless people, in a while, you will start understanding, how they communicate. They are granted 10 times more facial expressions. They look like actors.
How can we improve verbal and non-verbal communication?
How can we improve verbal, body language, facial expression, vocals (low high)?
Vocals (low high) is most difficult, then facial expression then body language.
Communication is an unseen pipe between communicator and listener.
This pipe is a tool, a bridge. Then content become useless.
No 9 in the list of 11 is opinion making.
Communication is everywhere; in call center, radio, TV, hawker, teacher.
To improve body language, follow your favorite speaker. Automatically, naturally; it will become different and new. (Modeling)
Teach and learn. Find daily practice court. Then you will find new tips and tricks.
32:55 - 36:22 Consciousness, curiosity, interest of improving and learning makes difference between human and animal.
Donkey and monkey have no change in past 4,000 years.
CHALLENGE is that we become static in learning.
New books, learning sessions, libraries, seminars, Google.
Things are there but not up to the required level.
Here we are comparing a mountain with a small stone.
Child curiosity, he will grab burning steel.
Absolute dedication and devotion to follow the model. Truly copy your model. Vocal and voice impact a lot on learner.
Self-Test; Record your voice for 30 minutes.
We human measure everything; thermometer for fever.
Mirror / camera; check eye movement, when looks down, remembering from past. Head / hand movements speak.
You can learn through practice to synchronize your words and movements.
Once you become expert; you can ride bicycle without holding handle. Insane Circus Tricks.
A magnifying glass is a double convex lens that focuses the light rays striking the surface onto a single point (focal point). Concentrate that much energy on a single spot and you will almost instantly burn an object.
Communication is the same art.
Verbal (content), non-verbal (body language, facial expression, vocals); all need to be focused for communication.
All four, five forces must be in the same converged direction. Young age is the best to learn.
You have to practice willingly and consciously to get the results.
With same content; one is employed for Rs 1500 per lecture for life. Other is earning one million for three days training.
World # 1 speaker; Tony Robbins; age 45, per head £350, 7000 audience.
When you do what you love, you reap so many more benefits than your friends who are holding down just another job to pay the bills.
It takes time to get there where your passion is but once you’re there then you enjoy the rest of your life. You don’t feel tire or bored with your passion work.
18-20 years of education, we come across 100-125 teachers but we can hardly remember 5-6 names. Respect is for all, but there was only one or two; who were able to communicate in full.
Some teachers we find out of school, they are freelance.
Truth teller and communication skills; are two important traits.
Communication is a skill – can be learned.
There are 11 skills to make life successful even with nominal education. Some earned honorary PhDs. Communication skill is king of all skills.
Verbal and non-verbal communication.
Verbal communication is used on radio.
7% is content and verbal communication.
12:00 – 17:00 Paper exercise; 3 pages, 3 persons, do some activities with closed eyes.
Mostly we depend on verbal communication and we feel it sufficient and we leave the rest 93% untapped.
57% body language plays the role.
33% vocals, facial expression, low and high voice.
Holy Prophet PBUH, the best communicator, sometimes he just smiled on some action or disliked; and the whole message was delivered.
Connection plays the main role.
There are 43 muscles in the face, most of which are controlled by the facial nerves. All become active when we smile.
These muscles get dead for serious face people.
Pauses, body language, facial expression, low and high voice are parts of speech.
If you pay attention to speechless people, in a while, you will start understanding, how they communicate. They are granted 10 times more facial expressions. They look like actors.
How can we improve verbal and non-verbal communication?
How can we improve verbal, body language, facial expression, vocals (low high)?
Vocals (low high) is most difficult, then facial expression then body language.
Communication is an unseen pipe between communicator and listener.
This pipe is a tool, a bridge. Then content become useless.
No 9 in the list of 11 is opinion making.
Communication is everywhere; in call center, radio, TV, hawker, teacher.
To improve body language, follow your favorite speaker. Automatically, naturally; it will become different and new. (Modeling)
Teach and learn. Find daily practice court. Then you will find new tips and tricks.
32:55 - 36:22 Consciousness, curiosity, interest of improving and learning makes difference between human and animal.
Donkey and monkey have no change in past 4,000 years.
CHALLENGE is that we become static in learning.
New books, learning sessions, libraries, seminars, Google.
Things are there but not up to the required level.
Here we are comparing a mountain with a small stone.
Child curiosity, he will grab burning steel.
Absolute dedication and devotion to follow the model. Truly copy your model. Vocal and voice impact a lot on learner.
Self-Test; Record your voice for 30 minutes.
We human measure everything; thermometer for fever.
Mirror / camera; check eye movement, when looks down, remembering from past. Head / hand movements speak.
You can learn through practice to synchronize your words and movements.
Once you become expert; you can ride bicycle without holding handle. Insane Circus Tricks.
A magnifying glass is a double convex lens that focuses the light rays striking the surface onto a single point (focal point). Concentrate that much energy on a single spot and you will almost instantly burn an object.
Communication is the same art.
Verbal (content), non-verbal (body language, facial expression, vocals); all need to be focused for communication.
All four, five forces must be in the same converged direction. Young age is the best to learn.
You have to practice willingly and consciously to get the results.
With same content; one is employed for Rs 1500 per lecture for life. Other is earning one million for three days training.
World # 1 speaker; Tony Robbins; age 45, per head £350, 7000 audience.
Internal management is more important in communication.
Practice
Self confidence
Eye contact proves confidence; Eyes speak; Eyes of intelligent people shine.
Body movement synchronize
If you can convey 16 words, it's better than vocabulary of 16,000 words.
Best listening creates best speaking.
Content weigh only 7%.
Never wait; find a place where you have to speak.
By nature, we the human being take good options.
By nature, we the human being take good options.
MSc chemistry, two class fellows; few years later; gold medal one Rs 60,000 salary lab technician job.
Naughty one, who used to practice teaching in the absence of teacher became company country head Rs 13 Lakh salary.
Work on your communication skill, take it serious.
Money is convertible. Things are not convertible.
Money is convertible. Things are not convertible.
Communication skill is convertible; respect, leadership, teacher, recognition.
When Sheikh Abdul Qadir was speaking about khofe Khuda, 3 people got faint.
When he was speaking about Mohabbat e Khuda, 6 people got faint.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TxEb_PLT4Io&list=RDTxEb_PLT4Io&index=1
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