Saturday, 8 August 2020

Maturity

When people act shady, allow them. When people betray your trust, allow them. But never, ever sink to their level. Their choices are a direct reflection of who they are, not who you are. No matter how angry, hurt, or disappointed you may be; do not allow them to make you bitter. Be better. React with love. Sometimes that means retaliating with understanding and compassion, other times it means retaliating with acceptance and sheer silence. Whatever it is, make sure it benefits you as a human being instead of lowering you into a position which you would rather not be in. Just because someone’s bad.

I am mature enough to forgive you, but not dumb enough to trust you again.

Become so confident in who you are that no one’s behavior, opinion, or rejection can affect you. 

Just because we get knocked down doesn’t mean we need to stay down.

If you want to get more out of life, stop wishing and start doing.

If it comes too easy, we won’t appreciate it.

Do you sit around wishing your life was better, or do you stand up and work to make it better?

The most dangerous liars are those who think they are telling the truth.

Never wrestle with a pig. You just get dirty and the pig enjoys it. 
In order for you to insult me. I would first have to value your opinion.
How beautiful it is to stay silent when someone expects you to be enraged. 
You'll never get the truth out of a narcissist.
Narcissists try to destroy your life with lies because theirs can be destroyed with the truth
Life's too short to do things you hate just to win the approval of others. 
If someone’s absence brings you peace of mind, you did not lose anything. In fact, you have gained so much peace, clarity, and strength. 
When you desire peace in any area of your life, do not be afraid to go after it. Place your hurt, guilt, and excuses to the side and get a hold of your peace. The enemy possesses tactics to make you second guess yourself. Be stronger than and much cunning than the enemy.
You want to know what? You have always been worth having peace. If any relationship has drained you, chase your peace. If any friendship has exhausted you, pursue your peace. 
Some people will only 'love you' as much as they can use you. their loyalty ends where the benefits stop.
Some people will hurt you and then act like you hurt them.
Beware of the person who stabs you and then tells the world they're the one who's bleeding.

The rules of a pathological liar. Never admit guilt. Deny, deny, deny. Blame shift. Then cover up with More lies.
Fussilat (Explained in Detail) 41:30



إِنَّ الَّذِينَ قَالُوا رَبُّنَا اللَّهُ ثُمَّ اسْتَقَامُوا تَتَنَزَّلُ عَلَيْهِمُ الْمَلَائِكَةُ أَلَّا تَخَافُوا وَلَا تَحْزَنُوا وَأَبْشِرُوا بِالْجَنَّةِ الَّتِي كُنتُمْ تُوعَدُونَ




[But,] behold, as for those who say, Our Sustainer is God, and then steadfastly pursue the right way - upon them do angels often descend, [say­ing:] Fear not and grieve not, but receive the glad tiding of that paradise which has been promised to you!


Al-Ahqaf (The Curved Sandhills) 46:13



إِنَّ الَّذِينَ قَالُوا رَبُّنَا اللَّهُ ثُمَّ اسْتَقَامُوا فَلَا خَوْفٌ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلَا هُمْ يَحْزَنُونَ






For, behold, all who say, Our Sustainer is God, and thereafter stand firm [in their faith] - no fear need they have, and neither shall they grieve:

The Stone Cutter - Fabulous Folk Tales - Cartoon Animation Stories for Kids in Hindi
Stone cutter became a rich man through prayers and wish, then became an influential figure, then sun, then cloud, then mountain and then again stone cutter.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gmgp9DV3fOY

A FATHER AND A SON | MOTIVATIONAL STORY IN HINDI
Statute maker father and son discussion. Keep on improving is the real key to success. There is always room for improvement.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jraRJO7IkgU

Get inspired by everyday people doing extraordinary things to change the world.

Nikl Kar Khanqahon Se Ada Kar Rasm-E-Shabeeri
Ke Faqr-E-Khanqahi Hai Faqat Andoh-O-Dilgeeri

Come out of the monastery and play the role of Shabbir,
for monastery’s faqr is but grief and affliction.
Tere Deen-O-Adab Se Aa Rahi Hai Boo’ay Ruhbani
Ye Hai Marne Wali Ummaton Ka Alam-E-Peeri

Thy religion and literature both smell of renunciation:
symbol of old age of dying nations.
http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.com/2011/03/armaghan-e-hijaz-28-nikal-ker-khanqahon.html


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