Am I Three Years old
The expectation of mind reading seems weird until we realize that the abuser is usually emotionally immature, still deeply narcissistic. By narcissistic, what we mean is that he thinks of himself as the center of the universe, where everything and everyone else exist in relation to this center, where everyone else is basically a part of him. This is why the inability to read his mind infuriates him, because it proves that these people are separate entities with their own thoughts and perspectives, a recognition that threatens the certainty of being at the center of everything.
Psychologically speaking, the way a narcissist sees the world and his place in it is not that much different from the three year old. And both the narcissist and victim have trouble controlling their emotions, especially when their needs or desires are thwarted (prevent someone from accomplishing something). But of course a big difference is that a basically harmless temper tantrum (an uncontrolled outburst of anger and frustration, typically in a young child) from a child translates to painful emotional, psychological or physical abuse from an adult.
85 Percent of all Diseases
The American Medical Association (AMA) states 80 percent of all health problems are stress related, and even the conservative Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has stated that 85 percent of all diseases appear to have an emotional element.
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