Know Your Weaknesses, To Improve Personal Success
Big change starts from changes in self. What to do and how to do! If you have this picture clear in your mind and your life styles matches with it, this is the way to success. Lifestyle means habits. Successful people have different habits and lifestyle than failure people. Discipline, attitude, organization, growth, mission, passion, friendship circle defines your success route; avoidance from time killers, defined goals and lifestyle according to it, study for knowledge. Adapt habits and lifestyle of successful people. Big change starts from inside. Barak Obama started from school teacher (ethics and law). He worked and developed habits of a leader. Action is yardstick of progress. Collection of information is not important. Act upon what you know. Don't run after more and more information. We are most deceiver and most true to our own-self.
Neykaan de sang nekee karye naslaan naeen bhulaandey
Buryaan de sang nekee kayey ultaa zoaf punchandey.
If you do good to pious men, they never forget it for generations; If you do good to mean people, in return they will injure your feelings.
Neechaan dee ashnaaee kolon feyz kisey naheen paayaa,
Kikar tey angoor charyaayaa, har guchaa zakhmaayaa.
No one has ever gained goodness from the proximity (closeness) of the mean; If you wind grapevine around an kikar (acacia) tree, every bunch of grapes will be pricked (wounded).
When Iranians make carpets, they deliberately make some defect in it. So that it may not be considered 100% perfect (Persian flaw). We human beings are not 100% complete. The people who constantly try to find their weaknesses and work on that are on the way to success. We don't notice our laziness, procrastination, delaying as problem. Some are all the time upset, worried. Some seem very fast, extra-ordinary self-confident, angry, greedy and busy. chamdi jaye par damdi na jaye. These are all short-comings and traits. Lack of hard work. No proper speaking power. Find your Persian Flaw and work on it. This is continuous exercise. Manage your Persian Flaw. You have to manage self (nafs), not kill. After competition, you are declared successful. You have to evaluate yourself. Knowing your worth will make harder to get deceived. Not too high, not too low. Not too boring, not too fascinating. Not too lonely, not too sociable.
Enjoy your own company and then see the results. When one is not satisfied in own company then you would find him rushing here and there escaping. We spend our most time with ourselves. Develop habit to ponder on yourself.
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