Understanding is Source of Happiness

Understanding is Source of Happiness

Thoughts are not negative and positive; it's our opinion. Negative is in one's opinion but positive in someone else's opinion. In reality, thoughts are neutral. We label them as positive and negative. Now we become happy and sad on this basis. Once we understand this philosophy, we become relax. The struggle to grab positive and get rid of negative finishes. We should take situation 'as is' and deal with it and it is quite possible. We focus on one situation without any reason and get sad as a result. Holding responsible for some situation, self or others, will make us uncomfortable. Cursing and angry on self is preparing us to curse and getting angry on the whole world. Vice versa is also right, when we are happy, world looks happy. So solution is; leave positive, leave negative, leave what we feel; take and deal 'as is. Not necessarily, what we feel, is right. People act and react; with different moods and we don't know about their condition. If we leave our opinion and same way other people do; take the situation 'as is'. Now solution is easy. See things as they are, not as you think they are.

Positive vs. Negative Thoughts
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwZjWm8iTWc

Allama Iqbal;

Bartar Az Andesha’ay Sood-O-Ziyan Hai Zindagi; Hai Kabhi Jaan Aur Kabhi Tasleem-E-Jaan Hai Zindagi

Life is higher than the calculation of profit and loss; Life is sometimes living and sometimes forfeiting living.

http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bang-e-dra-162-jawab-e-khizar.html

Kanpta Hai Dil Tera Andesha-e-Toofan Se Kya; Na-Khuda Tu, Beher Tu, Kashti Bhi Tu, Sahil Bhi Tu

Why is your heart trembling with the fear of the storm? The sailor, the ocean, the boat, as well as the sea‐shore you arehttp://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bang-e-dra-116-shama-aur-shayar.html

Nakhl-e-Shama Asti-o-Dar Shaola Dawad Resha-e-Tu; Aaqbat Soz Bawad Saya-e-Andesha-e-Tu

You candle‐tree! your wick‐like root, Its top with flame illumes, Your thought is fire, its very breath all future care consumes.

http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bang-e-dra-120-jawab-e-shikwa.html

Hayat Kya Hai, Khiyal-o-Nazar Ki Majzoobi; Khudi Ki Mout Hai Andesha Ha’ay Goonagoon

O fix one’s mind and gaze on goal is life, in fact: To ego’s death to lead the thoughts that mind distract.

http://iqbalurdu.blogspot.ca/2011/04/bal-e-jibril-023-woh-harf-e-raaz-ke.html

Keep your thoughts cleaner than pure water. As water drops make a river, thoughts make character and faith.

The intellect is better than desire, for the intellect makes you a king over your destiny, and desire makes you a slave of your destiny. Imam Ali (AS)

With the Courtesy of
www.znbbuilders.com
www.idealcityliving.com